Members' area contains many explicit pictures of other members. View large photos without even having to sign-up. Upgrade your membership to view all the photos that a member has posted, including the even more explicit ones.
Various public and private chatrooms available.
Anonymously email, chat & instant message with other sexually-liberated members!
Wink at other members.
Watch other exhibitionists playing on their webcams - and you can too!
Free online magazine section full of erotic stories and member experiences
Create your own hotlist of hotties in your area, which everyone can see. Alternatively, bookmark them, which only you can see.
Block any members you choose.
Easily turn your profile on and off, so you can choose whether it is visible to other members.
Complete privacy protection - no one will know your identity unless you explicitly tell them!
Excellent technical support
Joining:
Like most adult dating sites, there are 3 membership options with RealSexDates.com - free basic membership, silver membership and gold membership. Here's how they differ...
Basic Membership:
- Basic members can do general, basic member searches
- Basic members can upload photos and videos
- Basic members can show interest to other members
Silver members get all of the benefits of a Basic membership, plus:
- Silver members can view all members' photos and videos
- Silver members can contact all other members
- Silver members can do advanced searches
- Silver members can add people to their hotlist
- Silver members get listed above all Basic members in all search results
Gold members get VIP access to everything that BDSM Singles has to offer:
- Gold members can view all members' photos and videos
- Gold members can contact all other members
- Gold members get listed above all Basic, and Silver members in all search results.
- Gold members can do advanced searches
- Gold members can upload photos and videos
- Gold members can show interest to other members
- Gold members can add people to their hotlist
Searching:
The search facility allows you to search by:
sex: male, female or couple only
age range (pre-set age ranges already entered)
type of relationship
country
state
body type
smoking/drinking ptreferences
Editor's Verdict:
BDSM Singles is full-featured adult dating site with a modest members database, so like many other sites in this category, it's worth performing a quick search on this site if you live in a major city, but if you live in a small town, it's hardly worth it. The site is easy to navigate and contains many of the same features that readers will have come to expect from a site of this nature, including the ability to perform all manner of searches, wink at other members, browse other members profiles and hardcore pics, video and instant messaging, access to chat rooms and forums and the ability to contact a member by internal e-mail. However, the members' database is very sparse and contains many members who, from their profile descriptions, do not seem to fit into the BDSM scene at all! Maybe they just wandered onto the wrong site, or maybe the members' database of BDSMSingles.com is actually a subset of a larger database of members that belongs to another site (this seems to be the norm for many sites of this type).
The thing we really liked about BDSMSingles.com was the fact that you could perform searches based on your zip code (or postal code), browse profiles in their entirety and see one fairly large picture of each member in their profile - and all without even having to sign up!
We particularly didn't like the sign-up process, which for men required them to enter their credit card details and gave them just 12 hours for free after which they were automatically billed! The search facility is inferior to other similar sites we previewed (see our top choices on the menu on the right). There are two searches - a quick search and an advanced search. The advanced search offers more features, including searching by country and state, but it doesn't allow you to search by "distance from your current location". Most dating sites allow this type of search, which is arguably the best search feature of all, and yet BDSM Singles lacks this incredibly useful search parameter! Also, the list of states to search by is limited to the US, meaning that if you're in the UK, the extent of your geographical search is to search for other members in the UK - not very useful! The database size is unknown, but when we performed a broad ranging search for a male looking for a female between 18 and 40 anywhere in the UK, we came up with just one match! A similar search for all states in the US revealed just 43 matches!
However, the major drawback to BDSM Singles has to be that it has so few members - but that could of course change! But for the time being, our advice to you is to spend your hard earned cash on a site with a much larger members' database - like IWantU Alternative Adult Dating or the world famous Alt.com.
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