5 Tips to Help you Find Your Fetish

Alternative adult dating websites allow you to find like-minded, sexy singles, couples and groups for online and offline fun. From feet to FemDom, bondage to bi-curious, there are fetishes to satisfy almost any appetite. So, how can you find your fetishes and meet people who share your enthusiasm? We’ve a few pieces of sage advice to help you find your ideal alternative adult dates online…

1: Be open minded, talk to members

Alternative dating websites are all about experimentation. As such, be prepared to talk to people from all walks of life, with very different sexual and erotic interests. Being open to new people and ideas is a great way to become interested in new lifestyles, whilst judging people negatively for their interests is a sure-fire way of losing connections. Be open minded, listen to what people have to say and consider their position. Who knows, you could discover a fetish you never knew you had!

2: Explore forums, diaries and blog-posts

A lot of fetish sites will include tools and features to help you talk to members. Take a look at the communication features offered, because utilizing these can really help you to meet new people. Don’t be afraid to venture into the forums and to chat with others. If you’re not sure about a fetish or want to know more about it, simply ask! Chances are, members are more than willing to tell you about their preferences and lifestyle choices in the hope of attracting more members. You might also discover personal diary entries written by members, which give a personal insight into a particular sexual interest, as well as official and unofficial blog posts.

3: Check the shops

You may not be aware of just how many different fetishes and erotic activities are practiced by site members. By taking a look at a site’s shopping pages, which usually offer toys, videos, books and equipment, you can quickly get a sense of what its members enjoy. You can find top selling toys which you don’t currently own, and may be able to receive a member’s discount. Some sites even allow their members to review toys, so you can get a real idea of how pleasurable they might be to play with.

4: Try other websites and free trials

If you’re not clicking with a site’s members, or they simply don’t share your enthusiasm for certain fetishes, you might consider looking elsewhere. There are so many alternative adult dating sites to choose from, it seems silly to stick with one if it’s not turning out to be as successful as you hoped. Sometimes the bigger sites might not be the best ones for you, so it may be worth trying out a few free trials on smaller sites which focus on one or two very particular fetishes. Their dedicated members, although perhaps smaller in numbers, could prove more exciting. In contrast, if you’ve already signed up for a very particular site (such as one exclusively designed for S&M) and are getting a bit bored, why not head over to a more general/varied alternative adult dating site and explore the different interests of its members? You can usually try a site for free for a limited period, which is a good opportunity to explore its features and members’ activities.

5: Create posts, attract members to your interests

Sometimes, members who share your fetishes may be hiding in the woodwork. Why not extend a hand and invite them to talk to you about your mutual sexual interests? You can upload new photos and videos, write about your fetishes on your profile page, or even create blog posts or diary entries for them to read. Starting new forum discussions is also a good way to invite other members into your world, and you could quickly build a community of like-minded erotic singles.

The lowdown…

Alternative adult dating (or fetish dating) websites are full of interesting, sexy individuals with diverse erotic interests. If you’re not sure where to begin, try exploring the site and its members, keeping an open mind. If you know what you like, try reaching out to members or explore other sites which are more specific to your personal sexual interests. We’re sure you’ll find plenty of other members who share your enthusiasm!