BDSM.com Reviews

(based on 3 reviews)

263 of 475 people found this review helpful

I joined this site in May 2024 to learn more about the BDSM community. I assumed that, since the site was named after the philosophy, they might be respectful of the BDSM community, and would maintain the highest standards to protect their users. In fact, BDSM.COM has no relationship whatsoever with the BDSM community.
Take for comparison the whorish Adult Friend Finder, where even a dog can get laid if they have a few bucks stuck in their paw. They appeal to macho types with hard peckers and all sheets to the wind. They also don’t get mixed up with ethical topics like whether promiscuous sex is dangerous, let alone sex with prostitutes. You feel filthy being there. So let’s face it, if you feel disappointed, you weren’t really paying attention.
BDSM.COM has cynically inferred that they represent a community that they do not understand. They are just Adult Friend Finder Part II, BDSM Editon. Females place profiles on this site that say things like this:
“Hey all you DOM Masters on this site! I don’t know anything about this BDSM thing. I need you to teach me!! I’m ready to be debased and used... (Read the full review)

In summary, I would not recommend BDSM.com to a friend.

289 of 562 people found this review helpful

I joined Senior BDSM thinking it was what it said on the label. It's not. There are so called members all the way down to 18 years of age. The other immediate factor is that most members treat it as a dating site and are not interested in BDSM at all. In addition to these issues it does a poor job of location matching and makes no effort to tell you how long a profile has been inactive. I found someone looking for a date for New Years 2013!?

There are of course numerous bots and scams being run through some of the profiles. And, there are just as many warnings to avoid scams. But it seems half hearted. A phone number will get censored in the body of an email, but show up in the subject line.

The chat rooms are active, but the numbers are a lie. It will say 200 users in a chat room, but you log in and the count is 12 or 15.

Don't waste your money.

In summary, I would not recommend BDSM.com to a friend.

436 of 857 people found this review helpful

Not many good points. You have to pay to read mail, can't send mail unless you are a paying member. No reason to go there if you are just looking.

If you pay to become a member then it is OKay

In summary, I would not recommend BDSM.com to a friend.